Just a happy Christmas!

what do we ask from Santa Claus? well, my daughter asks lots of things and though she knows the truth about Santa, she hopes to get gifts(from Him). my son doesn't know about Santa or gifts, so he is (already) happy. But elders or people from my "group", want/hope/ask happiness, isn't it? Happy time, Happy holidays. and yet sometimes it becomes so difficult to be happy. why? why do we let others ruin our joy? and these "others" are none other than our close ones. its funny but true. and because it is true, we can not complain about it openly. can not discuss it with someone.

 

I too want to write a letter to Santa and I just want one thing. A Happy Christmas.

 

I wish all the mothers and all the wives  a very very Happy Christmas!! May Santa makes all your wishes true!! 

Divorce

Why people get divorce? Many people ask this question many times, nobody can answer. there is no definite answer, in most cases at least. or nobody can put it in exact words.  My friend told me about her divorce. I didn't dare to ask her the reason. definitely something was not working between them, and I guess either they did not know the problem or they did not have the solution. Its so sad. At some point of time, they were so happy together. At some point of time they had same dreams. At some point of time everything was so beautiful. And now, everything is different. they do not want to be together, different dreams , everything is broken between them. but one thing is same they both were not happy. I will not understand their situation, because I am not in their shoes. I was feeling so sorry for them and then I realized its not only they two but lot other people got affected too. her parents, his mom, her sister, his brother and their nieces-nephews. Marriage is after all two families coming together, hence divorce is separation of two families. Its so sad and yet its true.

 

 

I hope they both will find happiness in their life again.

 

I remember Leo Tolstoy's book Anna Karenina, which begins:

Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.

I will say "Marriages are all alike; every divorce is different in its own way"